Not everyone will choose to heal. And....that's okay. Wrapped up in an individuals aversion to invest in their own wellness, are many reasons that are important to them. All of which, are valid to them and should be respected. The reasons for not moving forward can include a lack of time, a feeling of too much pain, financial restrictions, preconceived idea's about the healing process and of course, origin conditioning... It could be that it is just not their time, or perhaps this is their lesson, this time around. We are only here to live our own experience. When sharing an experience with others, optimally, we are to observe and to share said experience from a place of non judgment. We all know that one person who does not want to put the work in, don't we? As someone who actively puts the work in, how do you approach this? If you are investing in yourself daily, and your energy has greatly shifted, it doesn't mean that everyone has the same game plan. You still need to interact with others. Here is the crazy thing, as we shift, we feel more. The layers are pulled back and as we become more tuned in, we are far more empathetic....so what do you do? Honor yourself and your awareness. Here is what I do... Firstly, I envision the other person as a small child and I send them love. I send them so much love. Then, I seal it off, so to speak. The final step is to create a bit of a boundary. I send love to the youngest self because that is more than likely when their trauma began...in this life, or perhaps in a previous one. I seal it, because I do not want to attach to their energy. I cut cord to remove myself entirely. Then I make realistic boundaries. Why are boundaries so important? Years ago, when I first started my healing journey, a fellow healer shared with me the Karpman Drama Triangle (KDT), and it changed my life. I was struggling at this time, and it was all due to unhealthy connections that I felt I could not remove myself from. We are never trapped, although at the time I felt I was. Life is choice. The triangle empowers you to make healthy choices and to feel empowered as you make them. Moving forward and using this model as a way to test the temperature of my relationships, I was able to clearly define healthy boundaries. The KDT is a nightmare loop where the relationship participants play the role of either the persecutor, rescuer or the victim. KDP is about making conscious choices in social situations and breaking free from unhealthy conditioning that we may have received at a very young age. If you would like to learn more, here is a link to start you off: https://www.karpmandramatriangle.com/ Be gentle with yourself. Love yourself. Live in joy. Carrie Carter -Painted Chakras and Stairways (Located in Hull/Aylmer, QC area) Usui Shiki Ryoho Master/Teacher Lightarian™ Reiki Master/Teacher Crystal & Mineral Master/Teacher Soul / Healing Coach Affiliate Member of The International Association of Reiki Professionals Member of The Wellness Universe Pachakuti Mesa Carrier PMT Apprentice #healingenergy #wellness #Reiki #energyhealing #crystalhealing #energyclearing #spaceclearing #sacredspace #crystalcare #crystalgridding #groundingtechniques #Authenticpower #sacredherbs #healingandenergyworkshops #reikisessions #reikicourses #reikicertificate #reikiandcrystals #healingtreatments #reikilevelone #reikileveltwo #reikilevel2art #reikimaster #reikitraining #UsuiReiki #LightarianReiki #LightarianReikiMaster #PMTApprentice #PachakutiMesaCarrier
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